Gay...

Morning..

Last night, i found out that a very old friend of mine is  a gay. I have nothing against them, its just that this guy looked like a perfect guy, but turned out to be a gay. no wonder he has been rejecting all the proposals brought in by his mum. Gave him a call yesterday afte 4 months of break. He said he would be leaving to Queensland in 2 months time. He will be going there with his partner. He told me how badly he wanted to tell me the fact about him before. I was his close fren and he knew i can accept him for he was. He was like big brother to me, macho-looking, protective, matured. He sadi he couldnt tell me because he feared that despite my acceptance,  might find him disgusting. I once did thought this whole gay thing is disgusting, but im matured now. I see things differently now. I understand that love and care is beyond the gender factor. He has not told his family (how would he, they might not ake it as well as i did). He is considering not telling them. He was asking my advice about it. I asked him if he thinks his mum can take it, he said no. Well, the answer is simple, dont tell. Let her live in her world.Not worth crushing her hopes for her son.  Life goes on better that way.

This is not the first gay friend i have. I have at least 7 more gay friends. Maybe i accept them well, they dont hide about them to me anymore. I realised that gay frens can be more loyal to me, comparatively. They are frank, and accept me for who i am, coz they know the importance of acceptance. But still, what made them take this decision, what happened? I want to ask this question to them, but i fear it might be a bit sensitive for them. But i want to know. Why and how?? Will try to post the insights of it soon..